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Party Info and Rules

1. Use play pads ("doggie pads") when fisting someone

2. Throw away used play pads after playing

3. Wipe down any surfaces (slings, beds, other furniture, etc.) you used while playing with paper towels so that they're clean for the next guy(s)

4. Keep the bathroom clean for the next person!
5. No photography. No cell phones inside play space.

Failure to follow rules 1-5 could lead to your being kicked out or banned from future parties. Please do your part to keep the environment safe and clean, and report violators to staff members.

Dress code: Underwear, gear or naked with some type of footwear on your feet. You may carry around a small bag at this party.


Hygiene/Safety. If you’re a first-time fisting top, be gentle. You don’t want to hurt someone! That is, unless your bottom asks you to move with greater force 😉. Make sure your fingernails are über short and filed and that there are no cuticles hanging off. Even small abrasions can hurt your bottom’s bottom. We have black nitrile gloves for you to wear but whether you go gloved or bare is up to you and your partner.

Bring your own fisting lube. Because your choice of fisting lube is very individual, and because you need to have the lube with you when you’re getting into it, we ask that you bring your own bottle of lube if you plan on taking a fist. We'll have some lube in case some people forget.

If you plan to bottom, do all of your cleaning out at home! You should be totally empty by the party time as messes put a real damper on the party atmosphere. Because while taking a fist you might drip lube or piss a little, take a pee pad from the bar area before you play deep.

Poppers are allowed, but know your limits. BYOB is allowed, but no glass bottles! Also, there is no refrigerator FYI. Smoking, with the exception of vaping devices, is not allowed. Illegal drug use is not permitted and will get you kicked out of the party. Maximum Impact and similar inhalants under pressure are not allowed.

Overly aggressive behavior towards one or more individuals ruins the party for other members and will not be tolerated. Alert the host if anyone is bothering you.


Please be careful not to pile onto another couple or group unless they seem interested in having you join them or are giving signals that they're interested. Although it is a sex party, not everyone is looking for a giant group fuck, though this definitely does happen at times. Use your best judgment.


DO NOT ENCIRCLE, HOVER OVER, TOUCH WITHOUT PERMISSION OR IN ANY OTHER WAY INVADE THE SPACE OF TWO OR MORE GUYS WHO ARE HOOKING UP WITH EACH OTHER NEAR YOU.  You are free to look, watch and enjoy with your eyes an environment full of guys enjoying themselves and each other; but if you wish to engage anyone physically or in an explicitly sexual way you need to  have their consent. So, what constitutes consent?

  • If a guy asks or tells you to do something to him, you have his consent.

  • If you ask or instruct a guy to do something to you, he has your consent.

  • Once you're hooking up and touching, kissing, licking or sucking each other or one of you is engaged in fucking or fisting the other's ass, it is your responsibility to alert your partner if something isn't working or you no longer wish to be engaged. Be polite but be clear, and do not tolerate being ignored. If he does not listen and respond to your request or instruction to stop doing something within a moment or two, get his attention more forcefully so that he understands what you are telling him.

  • If you need assistance dealing with a problem with another guest, raise your voice so that others hear you and have them alert the host or another staff member.

  • Do not escalate the situation any further on your own! Instead, please allow us to resolve the situation right away. We ask this so that (1) we may be aware of any misbehavior or worse and (2) so that guests who have not respected the rules of consent or broken another important rule may receive a warning or be ejected or banned from the parties. 

  • Please be respectful of other guests and see one of the hosts if you have concerns.


Water and snacks are complimentary and are in the bar area.

Toys and dildos. Feel free to bring a toy or two to this party, but you'll be responsible for carrying them around and keeping them clean.

Supplies we provide: Condoms; water-based lube; back-up fisting lube for those who forget (again, bring your own fisting or silicone lube); pee pads; black nitrile gloves; soap; paper towels; mouthwash.

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